I thought that this was such a good reminder today, especially the part I bolded. How well Austen words it!
“...And such is your definition of matrimony and dancing. Taken in that
light, certainly their resemblance is not striking; but I think I could
place them in such a view. You will allow that in both man has the
advantage of choice, woman only the power of refusal; that in both it is
an engagement between man and woman, formed for the advantage of each;
and that when once entered into, they belong exclusively to each other
till the moment of its dissolution; that it is their duty each to
endeavour to give the other no cause for wishing that he or she had
bestowed themselves elsewhere, and their best interest to keep their own
imaginations from wandering towards the perfections of their neighbours,
or fancying that they should have been better off with any one else.” (Austen, Northanger Abbey)
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